http://joy21.wordpress.com/2010/01/23/what-is-grosser-than-gross-2/#comments
This woman seems to be taking stabs at my mother now. It is a new years resolution for her not to come to my blog. And because I have hair extensions, I can take care of a child =] Yes. It’s very true! Ha. I am just so amused at the fact I am affecting their lives so incredibly much. Oh my Lord, Lord, Lord. Haha. She’s even closing comments to people that stick up for me and posting my youtube videos up. I am glad that she is giving me more “publicity!”
Anyway, I’m feeling a bit better, but still a little like…confused. Can’t explain it, but better, I suppose.
Thank you everybody who has kind words to share. I really appreciate it. Thank you, so much.
wtf!!! is wrong with you ppl you fucking make me sick you think she got pregnant cuz she wanted to or just to be on tv NO!!! she fucking didnt i cant believe you ppl have the nerve to do something like this and your also dogging her cuz she want to give it away its hard for her but she knows its the best thing for both of them and atleast shes giving it to someone she knows and that she knows that the baby will be raised right i mean what the fuck compelles you people to be so damn mean just because of some ones else pain you makeing it worse and another thing you dogging on the ppl who helped her who fucking supported her thats just wrong and immoral and it would be a totally diff story if you know she had an abortion but she s doing the right thing by doing whats best for them both. shes just a teenager so if you dont have anything nice to say then shut the hell up and mind you own fucking business
Joy won’t approve my comments. So I’ll post here
“How could Debbie allow her child to give away a perfect child. Ashley is 18 right?” are you stupid? Seriously. Debbie didn’t “allow” anything. Ashley is a legal adult and the mother of Callie. Do you have a child Carly? “They are shopping, have manicures, have hair extensions, travel by plane to see Callie.” who doesn’t shop? The money they spend on shopping, manicures, and hair extensions would never be enough to raise a child. And who gives a fuck if they travel by plane to visit Callie? Have you seen gas prices lately? Probably not. You seem like you are all glued to yalls fucking computer screens all day ridiculing other people. You old women make me sick. Ashley, 18 years old, is a million more times mature then you old bags. Get. A. Fucking. Life.
Do you bitches honestly think you are going to sway ashleysalazar opinion at all? Because…I mean…if I was Ashley, I would TOTALLY base the biggest decision of my life off of rude and immature comments left by old senile bitches. I cannot believe people are so awful!
Idk why it says “ashleysalazar” lol. It’s suppose to say ashleys. Lol
I know she won’t. Thanks Lorin. <3
Dude how old is this lady she’s so fucking immature. She needs to start taking better care of her kid(s) and stop digging into your life. She’s trying to say your the bad mom when Callie is being taken care of right now while her kids are probably in their room by themselves. Ew I don’t like her.
Ashley, what you will find out, if you haven’t already…is that you will always have your critics. No matter what you do or how you do it, there will always be someone who finds the worst in you for it. Those people you cast from your life, because those people are miserable people who live off everyone else’s misery. I had the chance to get to know your mom pretty well and while she may have had challenges in life, there was one thing that never wavered….her love for her children. Never forget that! She and I had many many conversations about how her children came first and I admired her for that then and still do to this day.
Ashley, I teach at the local middle school and I see children everyday in my classes who come to school wondering where their next meal will come from, will mom or dad be home when they get there, or they’re wearing the same clothes from the day before because they don’t have any money for another set. I teach in a poor district that is predominantly hispanic. Most parents have no education and can not speak english. They can’t help their kids even do their homework. The kids are left alone to take care of it all. The other day a young lady who is 14 came up to me and said she was expecting and that she wondered if I could help her get information about how she could get her GED and and get in to college after that. I was floored…
But turn around all the negative things I just said and try to see the positive…their parents are here (in the US) to try and provide their kids a better life. If they were in Mexico the likely that their kids even would get an education is pretty low. Say what you want about immigration but the bottom line it is about survival for most. As for the young lady who told me she was pregnant…at least she has the right attitude and wants a better life. No doubt she will face many of the same battles you have.
Now look at your situation. I believe you want to do what’s best for Callie. That is obvious with your reaction to what is going on. You were careless with your choices that brought Callie in to this world, but we all make mistakes. What matters now is that you have learned from those mistakes. You will live with the consequences the rest of your life. But what is done is done. The choices you make going forward are what matter now. If I were to give you any advice, I would say stick to your decisions. Don’t let outside voices make you doubt the choices you have made. Listen to those closest to you. The people who love you most were there before you had Callie and they will be there long after all this is done. Your true friends were your friends before you had Callie and they will be there long after this is all done. Embrace their love.
Wow this joy lady needs to get a life…there is so much more important things to worry about…what about children that don’t have any parents and are thrown from family to family…what is the big deal about your situation?? Too me it seems like it is a very blessed one…callie is with family…you will forever know she is ok…your mother said that she will grow up knowing you are mommy and she is grandma….I don’t think a situation like this could get any better…these ladys need to back up and find something else to do with there time…I am sorry that some people can be so cruel….keep your head up!!
Sorry if this is a little all over the place but I am on my phone.
I am 25 year old mother of 2…3 respect you for making such a selfless act for baby…and for them to say you did it just for TV makes me sick…why would you put yourself through so many emotions just be on TV….these women just make my blood boil!!
Ashley- I really am shocked how people have come at you. I won’t lie I wanted you to parent more than anything-you know that. Just because you didn’t do what they wanted you to do doesn’t give them the right to treat you so harshly.
I was treated this way when I brought my son home to parent. Though not on the internet. I got prank phone calls telling me I was a baby stealer (he was MINE!) I was harrassed at work, hate letters thrown in my mailbox. My mom too was yelled at in public. My other two sons had people approaching them. There would have been the “haters” no matter what your final decision was. I focused on the positives in my life.
No matter what we can’t make everyone happy. Adoption is hard NO MATTER WHAT! There are good outcomes and there are bad. You’ve made your choice, now focus on keeping it postive for everyone involved. Work on your open adoption. Check out any local support groups in your area and take care of yourself.
Ashley, You are the only person that knows what is right for YOU. People make me sick thinking someone feeling the way u are feeling did this just to be on tv. Which I’m sure u didn’t know about being on MTV when u got pregnant. People need to mind their own business! =]] It’s YOUR life.
Hon I think you made the right decision for you. I”m 22, I had my son at 21 and things haven’t even been that easy for me. Yes I finished high school and what not and have a job. But I def. can say I struggle. I made the right decision for myself even though his father is just coming into his life, which I’m glad about. But everyone has to do what ir ight for them and for their child. While I was pregnant I started to look for a better job b/c the one I had wouldn’t have been wroth it at all. But now things are a bit better. A conversation a friend and I had once makes perfect sense, no one is every ready for baby. You will never no what to expect etc. And the younger you are the harder, but I support you 100%, I love Cateyln and Tyler and those to are just amazing. And after reading some of your blogs I respect you just as much as I came to respect those two. You are just totally amazing!!!
You are amazing!
Yes I guess it would be easier to focus on Joy than look at yourself and what you have done.
Joy has every right to stop any comments, she is not looking for a blog war to make money off of blog ads like you. She is just saying her piece. She is entitled to an opinion.
Why should anyone “mind their own business” when you are displaying everything here on the internet for all the world to see?
I agree that you should stop blogging. I think it is dangerous for you. I’m sorry that you do not have people in your life that want to help you or protect you. I see now that you have been just as exploited by your mother as you have done to Callie.
Very sad.
I think it is messed up for anyone to judge a person they don’t know personally. Hear say or videos aren’t enough proof to go around on a website and call a mother a bad one. They just have nothing better to do with their lives so they just hate. Dont let em get you down. Their losers. I think your very strong for what you did. Keep your head up.
Oh my, that lady is just plain mean! Did any of you read how she and her friends basically attacked a woman, Sara, who posted a comment saying she was in the process of adopting. I don’t understand some people!
http://joy21.wordpress.com/2010/01/24/why-i-believe-that-someone-actually-would-get-pregnant-and-give-away-their-baby-to-be-on-mtv/